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You Will Find Him Next To Me

By Stephanie Jankowski 30 Comments

My husband kisses me every day.

He reaches for me in his sleep.

He is patient when I am not.

 

You won’t find him drinking at the table
Rolling dice and staying out ’til three
You won’t ever find him be unfaithful

You will find him, you’ll find him next to me

   


My husband puts up with my irrational fear of thunderstorms.

He works himself to exhaustion for our family.

He couldn’t pick Kim Kardashian out of a line-up, but he can solve a quadratic equation in .4 seconds. (I’ve no idea what a quadratic equation is or why I like that about him).

 

 

You won’t find him tryna chase the devil 
For money, fame, for power, out of greed
You won’t ever find him where the rest go
You will find him, you’ll find him next to me  

 

 


My husband doesn’t ogle over other women.

He is patient when I am not. That’s worth repeating.

He does silly things like puts random crap in our son’s t-shirt pocket because “who wears a pocket t-shirt with nothing in the pocket?!”

 

 

When the money’s spent and all my friends have vanished
And I can’t seem to find no help or love for free
I know there’s no need for me to panic
Cause I’ll find him, I’ll find him next to me

 


My husband is honest and true.

He makes me a better woman, mother, and person.

He supported my decision to have a VBAC and stood up for me when others said I was crazy.

 

 

When the skies are grey and all the doors are closing
And the rising pressure makes it hard to breathe
When all I need’s a hand to stop the tears from falling
I will find him, I’ll find him next to me

 


My husband makes me laugh every day.

He scoops up our kids and smothers them with kisses, and when they try to wriggle away, he holds them tighter because he knows the day will soon come where they’re not “scoopable” any more. 

He has integrity.  And a great smile.

 

 

When the end has come and buildings falling down fast
When we’ve spoilt the land and dried up all the sea
When everyone has lost their heads around us
You will find him, you’ll find him next to me  

 

My husband isn’t the only fabulous father out there. 

I asked some of my Facebook pals to weigh in on why their husbands deserve the best Father’s Day EVAH and this is what you lovelies had to say:

 

Fathers Day Photo 2

Fathers Day Photo 1   Fathers Day Photo 3 Fathers Day Photo 4

 

 

Happy Father’s Day to all of you amazing Dads out there! May your day be filled with golf, landscaping, and whatever else boring crap you enjoy.

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  1. Mama G says

    June 16, 2013 at 11:53 am

    Well you know all about my amazing man, probably more than he wants you to know… so let’s raise a glass to these amazing men. I’m going to have to fill mine with wine. The whole time I was stood talking to MY Dad today, Mr G was fondling my butt. And there wasn’t a damned thing I could say or do, because I was worried my Dad would punch him if I said anything. I am his baby girl after all…

    Happy Fathers Day Mr Crazy!

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    • crazy14 says

      June 16, 2013 at 9:31 pm

      Cheers!!

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  2. Bad Word Mama says

    June 16, 2013 at 12:22 pm

    That was beautiful! Brought a tear to my eye.

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    • crazy14 says

      June 16, 2013 at 9:31 pm

      Thanks so much! I hope you’re feeling more like your bad word, funny Mama self soon!

      Reply
  3. Mom Rants and Comfy Pants says

    June 16, 2013 at 1:12 pm

    Nicely done Steph! Loved it!!

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    • crazy14 says

      June 16, 2013 at 9:32 pm

      Thanks, Penny!! Your FB comment was one of my faves <3

      Reply
  4. Amy says

    June 16, 2013 at 3:04 pm

    That was a perfect mixture of sweetness and funny! Yes, they do deserve at least one day a year for praise and appreciation! 😉

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    • crazy14 says

      June 16, 2013 at 9:32 pm

      I agree: ONE day 😉

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  5. vernette says

    June 16, 2013 at 3:05 pm

    Cheers to the Dads who are right there with the moms doing an excellent job! Nice post Stephanie.

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    • crazy14 says

      June 16, 2013 at 9:33 pm

      Thanks so much, Vernette!!!!!! Hope you and yours are doing well 🙂

      Reply
  6. Julie DeNeen says

    June 16, 2013 at 6:44 pm

    That was beautiful!!!!

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    • crazy14 says

      June 16, 2013 at 9:33 pm

      Stop. You’re beautiful.

      😉

      Reply
  7. jhanis says

    June 16, 2013 at 8:29 pm

    I so so so so so love this!!! I bet your husband cried a river when he read this! 🙂

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    • crazy14 says

      June 16, 2013 at 9:37 pm

      If cried a river means kissed me on my cheek and thanked me. Which I’ll totally take 😉

      Reply
  8. karen says

    June 17, 2013 at 8:06 am

    I love your post, it’s wonderful having a good man. I know we all joke, especially me, about the annoying habits and silliness of our hubbies…but in the it is an honor to have a good man for a husband.

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    • crazy14 says

      June 17, 2013 at 9:46 am

      Thanks, Karen! I definitely joke, too, but at the end of the day, the men know we love them. Probably. Hopefully.

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  9. Dani Ryan says

    June 17, 2013 at 11:49 am

    I don’t know what I loved about this post the most: the beauty of your words, the awesome comments from Facebook, or Nicole Louise’s comment at the end. 🙂

    Sounds like you and I lucked out in the husband department. Mine is, quite simply, amazing. And I’m a lucky, lucky gal. 🙂

    xo

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    • crazy14 says

      June 17, 2013 at 12:55 pm

      Definitely the awesome comments from my FB pals. I like them 🙂 My husband’s not bad either…

      Hope Mr. Ryan enjoyed his Father’s Day. 😉

      Reply
  10. Crystal Green says

    June 17, 2013 at 2:22 pm

    Your title captured my attention because when I hear that song I think about my wonderful husband too! For many of the same reasons you listed for your husband. Sounds like you have a keeper and a man worthy of praising. 🙂

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    • crazy14 says

      June 17, 2013 at 3:23 pm

      Amen, Crystal!

      Reply
  11. Shay says

    June 17, 2013 at 4:59 pm

    What a sweet post! It’s so inspiring…maybe I should stop using my Father’s Day posts as an excuse to poke fun at my dad and hubby and instead start being sweet! Naaaaaah! 🙂 Love it, Steph. Great job!

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    • crazy14 says

      June 17, 2013 at 9:40 pm

      Bahahaha! I like to think that poking fun at someone is just another way to say “I love you.” Not many share that sentiment, so don’t tell anyone you heard it here. 🙂

      Reply
  12. Cheryl Nicholl says

    June 17, 2013 at 5:52 pm

    I just LOVE that song! And I love the way you wove it into your praise. Just lovely.

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    • crazy14 says

      June 17, 2013 at 9:38 pm

      It is a great song; I thought of my husband the first time I heard it and have been trying to find a way to work it into a post. Thanks so much, Cheryl!!!

      Reply
  13. Jill Pinnella Corso says

    June 18, 2013 at 10:34 am

    Lovely! You are changing minds and hearts better than Dr. Phil! 😉

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  14. Anka says

    June 18, 2013 at 7:44 pm

    Steph, you’ve got a winner!
    I could relate to many of these blessings. But, the one I loved the most was that your hubby reaches for you in his sleep. My guy does this, too. It makes me feel SO SECURE! I’m kind of like a sponge–I just want to soak up all of his love! 🙂

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    • crazy14 says

      June 19, 2013 at 12:21 pm

      🙂 🙂

      Reply
  15. Amy - Funny is Family says

    June 18, 2013 at 8:42 pm

    Your post choked me up a bit, and Mom Rants and Comfy Pants got the tears flowing. Cheers to the good ones. There are so many.

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    • crazy14 says

      June 19, 2013 at 12:31 pm

      Penny is a good lady. 🙂

      Reply
  16. Menopausalmother says

    June 19, 2013 at 2:43 pm

    This is beautiful–love, love, LOVE it. Thanks for opening hearts up everywhere! <3

    Reply

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