The husband and I recently celebrated seven years of wedding bliss. We went out to a dinner that didn’t require miniature silverware, wet wipes, bibs, or the bag o’ tricks, otherwise known as Don’t Embarrass Us; Your Food is Almost Here. If I recall, I actually dried and styled my hair instead of rocking the normal fresh out of the shower ponytail. I know I put on make-up because I had a zit the size of a silver dollar on my chin and that shizz needed some serious cover-up. The point is that I was actually lookin’ pretty decent, so when the husband remarked that I was “glowing,” I just figured it was my bronzer.
I was wrong.
How funny are these two?!
We’re having a baby!!
I don’t know why I was so surprised by the news; after all, the universe does like a good joke. If you’re trying to get knocked up in a timely fashion, please follow the steps below so the universe can laugh at your attempt to control the creation of a human, too:
1. Based on last few months’ intense cycles, spend half of your paycheck on feminine products . Open them, sort them, and place a trillion of them in all of the bathrooms, your purse, the diaper bag, and your car’s glove box and repeat after me: WE WILL NEVER BE CAUGHT OFF GUARD AGAIN!
2. Because identifying ovulation has been difficult, spend the other half of your paycheck on an ovulation kit and bubblegum. Waiting is boring; blow bubbles to pass the time.
3. Look forward to your yearly beach vacation with unmatched fervor and envision the cold Blue Moons you’ll imbibe at the water’s edge.
4. Look forward to your yearly beach vacation with unmatched fervor and envision the shellfish you’ll shovel in your face until you can’t move.
5. Take a $2.00 pregnancy test. Because this is your third child, no need to indulge in the $10 read-out tests: Pregnant/Not Pregnant are for rookies. However, please note that your Type A personality will insist you buy 5 of the $2.00 tests, and because of your inability to understand math, you won’t realize that you’ve wasted money until it’s too late.
6. Buy yourself a copy of Paige Kellerman’s book, At Least My Belly Hides My Cankles: Mostly-True Tales of an Impending Miracle and laugh yourself into labor. Paige seriously made me snort with her daily pregnancy observations and stream of consciousness way of thinking. Her writing is a cross between something Larry David would pen and every pregnant woman’s thoughts. The honesty, the hilarity, the heart–Paige brings it all. If you, much like my period, are late and have yet to snag her book, today is your lucky day! I procrastinated sharing her witticisms so our giveaway would coincide with my news because I’m selfish efficient like that. Leave a comment and you’re automatically entered to win a free copy of Cankles. (We have a secret number system to choose the winner, simmer down).
7. Re-enroll in your online pregnancy group STAT and begin obsessing over conception dates and due dates and the age of your eggs. Then sit back and watch drama unfold when the imbalanced pregnants of the group start virtual cat fights over breast feeding vs. bottle feeding or vaginal births vs. C-sections. Ahhh, good to be back, ladies. Good to be back.
So if you’re looking to get your eggo preggo, the aforementioned tips will help. Probably not, but they worked for me.
I’m a little neurotic, but oh-so-excited! I’ve always envisioned being a family of five with two dogs and a swing set in the back yard. Somehow, my dream is coming true. I’m sure to drive myself insane finding things to worry about, but for now, I’m just going to bask in the blessing that there is a little person growing inside of me. Fortunately for those who see my face on the regular, I’m a pretty zen prego. I’m one of those weird anomalies who actually enjoys being pregnant.
Just remind me I said that when I can’t see my feet and I’m peeing every six seconds.
Oh and congratulations to YOU, too! Right now, you are but an empty vessel, but soon, and for the next nine months, I will fill you with pregnancy-related woes, questions, rants, successes, and breaking news. Breaking news like my rock hard stripper boobs; when they return, you shall be the first to know. You’re welcome?
Yay, babies!!!
Amy - Funny is Family says
CONGRATULATIONS!!! I love that video, I love that you are cooking up another adorable human, I love Paige, and I love that you will be sending me all of your extra booze until spring. SO EXCITING!!!!!
Stephanie Jankowski says
The Gin is in bubble wrap and shall be swapped for a copy of your NEW book 😉
Juliet Neary says
Super congratulations! I’m so excited for you!
Stephanie Jankowski says
You’ve no idea what your support of me and this little blog means, Juliet! THANK YOU! xo
Joanna says
Congratulations! I am expecting my third also. Can’t wait to read that book!
Stephanie Jankowski says
Congrats to you, too!! When are you due, Joanna?
Jhanis says
Wow Congratulations! What a way to celebrate a 7th year wedding anniversary 🙂
Stephanie Jankowski says
Right?!! 🙂
Abby @ Just a Girl and Her Blog says
YYYYYAAAAAYYYY!!!! Congrats, girl! So excited for you guys! And, per usual, this was the most hilarious and entertaining pregnancy announcement I’ve read! Have a wonderful week!
~Abby =)
Stephanie Jankowski says
🙂 🙂 🙂 THANK YOU! I couldn’t believe it when my kids started yelling at each other about boy/girl. High-larious!
motherhoodisanart says
Yee-haw!!! You did it!! I know how bad you’ve wanted this and it’s finally coming true! You will now have the exact same age differences between your kids as me and you will also be just as insane as me! So happy for you Stephanie! I also bought the hugest pack of tampons of my life right before I found out I was pregnant with one of the kids. It must really be a fertility god!
Stephanie Jankowski says
Maybe it is the fertility god yukkin’ it up while we drop $50 on tampons 😉 You seem to be holding the fort down pretty well on your end, so I’m going to pretend I can handle this. 🙂 THANK YOU!
Shay says
I was going to come over here and yell at you if you had teased us with that title and then not been pregnant. But you didn’t fail us. YAY!!! So excited for you. Congrats!
Stephanie Jankowski says
Hahahahaha!! Don’t yell. I’m hormonal; I’ll cry 🙂
THANK YOU!
Jen--Real Life Parenting says
Can I just say that the best part of this awesome post was the immediate and impassioned argument between your current kiddos regarding the gender of your pending kiddo?! I cracked up at that. Because I’m twisted, apparently.
Congrats to you all!! Looking forward to the pregnancy shenanigans in your posts 😀
Stephanie Jankowski says
Jen, I agree with you! I didn’t expect their little verbal throw-down! Although my daughter leisurely sipping her breakfast was a close-second 😉
Leah says
Aw yay! That is so exciting for you! Congratulations!
Stephanie Jankowski says
Thank you! <3
Jeannette @ Mommy Needs A Martini says
Ahhhh! Congrats to you and your cute lil family! xoxo
Stephanie Jankowski says
Thanks so much, Mama! xo
Lydia says
so excited for you! And you’re so right. We obsess over this stuff, but it works out just perfectly. 🙂 Can’t wait to be the empty vessel learning all about your 9 months of pregnant bliss!!
Stephanie Jankowski says
I knew YOU would be thrilled at this news, Mama!!! xo
Jumpin' Jack Flash says
“Life is a flame that is always burning itself out, but it catches fire again every time a child is born.” – George Bernard Shaw
Stephanie Jankowski says
Did you Google that? 😉
Jill Pinnella Corso says
Congrats! So happy and excited for you 🙂
Babieeeeeessss
Stephanie Jankowski says
Thanks so much, Jill!! You’re next, right? 😉
Meredith says
Steph, I was beaming when I saw this video on FB and am beaming again now. This is TOO COOL! And that baby is so darn lucky to have such a funny momma to great him/her right after joining this world! P.S. Am dying over the pregnancy sticks…
Stephanie Jankowski says
Heart you 🙂
Christine at More Than Mommies says
Baby fever is in the air and something must be in the water in our neighborhood. I am prepared to live vicariously through you, but I have been upended by my hubs who has casually hinted around that he would like to try for a boy. *gasp* I hope he’s joking…
Stephanie Jankowski says
Ooooh DO IT!!!!!!! Even though you would end up with a fifth girl, just DO IT! 🙂
Vikki Claflin says
Congratulations!!
Stephanie Jankowski says
Thank you, Vikki!
The Shitastrophy says
Congratulations! Can’t wait to hear all the joy (pain) of your impending baby!!
Stephanie Jankowski says
I’m sure there will be plenty of both! HA! Thanks, lady 🙂
Christine says
Yay!!!!!!!!!! Congratulations!
Stephanie Jankowski says
Thanks!!! xo
Janine Huldie says
Congratulations!! And since I am so done here with babies, I will be living vicariously through you on this one for sure!! 🙂
Stephanie Jankowski says
Welcome to vicarious pregnancy, Janine! Congrats 🙂
Sarah @ LeftBrainBuddha says
Congratulations!!!!! {And I just have to say, when I was TTC, I absolutely LOVED looking at pee-stick pictures, so thanks for a chance to relive the fun!}
Stephanie Jankowski says
Pee sticks are all my pleasure!!!
Annie Crawford says
Congratulations! You’re too funny ;). We are thinking about our second baby. I also love being pregnant!
Stephanie Jankowski says
ANNIE!!!! Go for it! And thank you 😉
Molly says
Congrats on your newest tiny person!
Stephanie Jankowski says
Thanks so much, Molly!! xo
Anita says
That’s fantastic!!! Congratulations!!!
Stephanie Jankowski says
Thanks, Mama! Great to see your face again 😉
Norine of Science of Parenthood says
Congratulations! We’re so thrilled for you. And just think of all the additional material you’ll have for your blog! Can’t wait to follow your journey! Keep the sick bags handy!
Stephanie Jankowski says
I think we only got pregnant again for the benefit of the blog. And bigger boobs. 😉 THANK YOU!
Nicole says
I found out I was pregnant this time after telling multiple people at work I would be waiting until my daughter was getting ready to go to Kindergarten (she just turned one). Haha, universe. Well played. They will be 19 months apart instead.
Stephanie Jankowski says
My first two are 22-months apart. Let’s drink together after the babies, mmmkay?
Nicole says
It’s a date!
nothingbythebook says
Awesome, awesome, awesome!
Stephanie Jankowski says
I knew a fellow Mama of three would be thrilled for me. THANK YOU!!!! xo And I hope things are getting back to normal in your neck of the woods.
Anka says
Yay!!!!! You did it! Well, your hubs had a hand in the process too. So glad I’m not the only one who’ll be peeing seven times a night!!
Stephanie Jankowski says
Hey! I know you!!!!!! Why haven’t I been getting updates to your blog again?! GRRRR. Anyhoo, thanks for swinging by and I hope you are feeling well! Not too much longer, Mama!!!!!!! Throw me an email when you have the chance xo
Nicole Leigh Shaw says
Congrats!!! So happy for you! I think we’re done, but my overwhelming excitement for you might be a sign that I need to get knocked up, too!!!! Wheee!
Seriously, what wonderful news! Congrats.
Also, you could have boy/girl twins and make both of your kids happy.
Stephanie Jankowski says
Nicole Leigh Shaw, you bite your tongue! TWINS! Gah! Thank you for your kind words; I’m sending the fertility gods your way 😉
Sarah Almond says
CONGRATULATIONS! I’m looking forward to reading all about it!
Stephanie Jankowski says
Thanks so much, Sarah! After seeing your cutie pies, I’m thinking you should maybe entertain the idea of a third…
Are you coming to my house to hurt me?
HouseTalkN says
HOLY AWESOME! Congratulations, Mama!
Stephanie Jankowski says
And congratulations to YOU, m’lady for your new book AND the big unveiling of That’s What She Said!!
Kathy at kissing the frog says
Oh wow!! Congrats! If this new baby will be anywhere in the cuteness ballpark of your other two, you are one lucky lady! Here’s to an easy pregnancy. Can’t wait to hear more (and I already have the book, so I’m not entering to win).
Stephanie Jankowski says
Aww, thanks! Hopefully the new baby will be a *smidgen* less outspoken. Ahh, who am I kidding? I love that about my kids 😉
THANK YOU!
Amanda says
How awesome! Congrats to you & your family! 🙂
Stephanie Jankowski says
Thanks so much Amanda!
Frugalistablog says
WOW!! Yay you!!
When I see your blog title, this is what it looks like in my URL bar- whencrazymeet sex haustion
isn’t that funny??
Apparently, crazy and exhausted have sex and make babies!! Did that make sense?
I’m happy for you and your kids look like they’re happy too. Sort of. Congrats!
Stephanie Jankowski says
Yeah, I get that URL thing a lot. Not the best marketing move. Or maybe the most brilliant marketing move? Meh. THANK YOU!!! xo
Heather says
Congratulations! So happy for you!
Stephanie Jankowski says
Thanks so much, Heather! It’s great to see your face, er, snowman over here 😉
Melissa@Home on Deranged says
Congratulations to you and all the excitement you are about to encounter! I know you will make it hilarious for all of us. 😉
Stephanie Jankowski says
I hope so, Melissa! The saying “laugh or cry” comes to mind… 😉
Stephanie @ Mommy, for real. says
This is fantastic news!!! I am so excited for you, and I loved your kids and their adorable announcement. Big hugs, mama, and can’t wait for you to keep us updated on your journey! xo
Stephanie Jankowski says
The kids were pretty excited to be filmed. I think we watched approximately one billion times 😉
THANK YOU, pal! Love that you’re so excited for me! xo
Jen at PIWTPITT.com says
Congratulations! Now you’ll be crazier and more exhausted – blog fodder. I hope the next nine months blow by at the rate you prefer. Put your feet up and cook that baby!
Stephanie Jankowski says
Thank you! And yes, definite blog fodder!!!!!
Also, Jen at PIWTPITT is on my blog. I’m popping my collar over here, trust me on that.
Kylee says
Awesome!
Stephanie Jankowski says
🙂 🙂
Jessica says
Congratulations! Cutest video ever.
Stephanie Jankowski says
Thanks so much, Jessica! The kids thought they were pretty cute, too, which was evidenced by them requesting to watch it a zillion times…
Chris Carter says
YIPPEE!!!!!!! YAHOO!!!!!!! HOORAY!!!!!!!! I am SO excited for you Stephanie!!! XOXO Can’t WAIT to hear all about every tiny detail of your pregnancy… and I am SO glad you have had two smooth ones, as I hope the same for the third. You are one of “those” pregnant ladies I love to hate!! (Oh my, did I just jinx your third? I pray not!!)
Stephanie Jankowski says
You better not have jinxed me, woman!!!
Thank you, Chris! Heart you 🙂
Andrea Rake says
Congrats! That’s so exciting! I’d love to win this book! I’ve heard so many great things about it!
Stephanie Jankowski says
Muchas gracias, Andrea! And you will LOVE the book. Even if you don’t win, you’ve got to get yourself a copy and then lock yourself in the bathroom to read it cover to cover. Paige is a funny, funny lady!
Patricia says
Congratulations! Five kids sounds wonderful. I have one, and I live vicariously through moms who have more. 😀 I’d also love to read the book.
Stephanie Jankowski says
WHOA, Patricia! Slow your roll, lady: 5 total people–2 parents + 3 kids!!! 😉 😉
Kelly DeBie says
Congratulations!!!!
Stephanie Jankowski says
Thanks so much, Kelly! And thank you for sending your FB pals with their baby glitter, too! xo
Maria says
Congratulations!
Stephanie Jankowski says
🙂 🙂 🙂
MomChalant says
Congratulations!! I love that you posted every single one of your tests haha
Stephanie Jankowski says
Was there really any other super classy way to share the news? 😉
Thank you!
toni says
Congrats! Love your writing – it made me laugh. 🙂
Stephanie Jankowski says
THANK YOU for the congrats, but more for loving my writing. Does that make me terrible? 😉
Kim Neyman says
Friggin hilarious! Congrats!! Ill look forward to your future pregnancy blogs.
Stephanie Jankowski says
My goal is to not allow the pregnancy to consume me, otherwise you fine folks will be reading about my every craving (raisin-filled cookies) to my every gripe (can’t stop crying). See? I’m starting already… 😉
Christie says
Yippee!!!!!!!!!! Congratulations, Mommy! At this point, you’re already a pro so there’s no doubt in my mind that pregnancy #3 will be a breeze. Easy for me to say, right? 😉 Really, so happy for you and the rest of the family! Best wishes and lots of love to you!!!
Stephanie Jankowski says
I’m sooooo trusting you on this, Christie 🙂
Darcy Perdu says
What a hilarious way to announce your news! Congrats! I especially love the irony of buying and sorting all the feminine hygeine products! Too funny!
Stephanie Jankowski says
Oh there was so much buying and so much sorting. That shit just ain’t fair 😉
THANK YOU, Darcy!
vernette says
Awww congrats to you and the hubs Stephanie!!! No more lonely uterus yay!!!
p.s. Gloria Jean has de-caf Hazelnut k-cups. You’re Welcome 😀
Stephanie Jankowski says
You shut your mouth when you’re talking to me! How did you know I adore Gloria Jeans hazelnut K-cups?! ARE YOU A MIND READER? Oh, wait. I wrote about it once, huh? Anyway, you. are. fabulous.
Thanks much!! xo
Scary Mommy says
Such awesome news!!! You will LOVE the world of three kids. When you’re not going crazy. Which won’t be often. 🙂
But, really, thrilled for you!!!! XO
Stephanie Jankowski says
How sweet are you to stop by and wish me well?! THANK YOU, Jill! Hope you and yours are well! xo
Meredith @ The Girl Next Door Drinks and Swears says
Congratulations!!
I’m so jealous that you had the balls (vagina, uterus, ovaries?) to bite the bullet and go for 3! We talked about it forEVER but could never get there. I’m so happy for you!
Love, love, love the picture of all the pregnancy tests. That would SO be me. It actually WAS me with my second. Also love how your daughter got teary over the sex of the baby. Hilarious.
Congrats again. Can’t wait to hear update on the pregnancy! xoxo
Stephanie Jankowski says
I think the balls and uterus were involved 😉
THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!! (P.S. if it’s not a girl, we’re in some deep shit with my daughter. She’s a firecracker that one…) 😉
Kathy Radigan says
Congratulations!!! I love this post!!! And, I love your video!! So happy for you!!
Stephanie Jankowski says
Thank you, Kathy!!!! I’m not quite at the “knock off the penis talk” phase yet, but I’ll be sure to blog about it when I do 😉
The Insomniac's Dream says
Congrats!
I can’t imagine. I’m so done, and mine are so old.
Stephanie Jankowski says
Yours can’t be “so old.” I see your perfect skin on Facebook–if you’re not 25, you best share your secret, like, NOW. 😉
Lisa @ The Golden Spoons says
Congratulations!!!!! That video is just too cute!!!
Stephanie Jankowski says
Thank you, Lisa! xo
Christy says
Congratulations! The video is really cute.
I too am due in April.
Stephanie Jankowski says
CHRISTY!!!!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!! Let’s get together and drink green tea and talk about bloating! xo
Kristi Campbell says
I’m so happy for you! Congratulations!
Stephanie Jankowski says
Gracias, Kristi! xo
Kristen Daukas says
Congrats!! Having three kids is…. fun! Really! Great fun. Please stop reading my blog so that I leave here knowing you are convinced of that… 😉
Stephanie Jankowski says
All 4 Hens and a Rooster reading will cease. 😉
Paige Kellerman says
Can I please say congratulations again? Ok, I can’t help myself… Congratulations! I’m beyond beyond beyond excited for you. And THANK YOU again for the serious honor of mentioning my humble work with such a big announcement. You’re the bee’s knees, I tell ya.
Stephanie Jankowski says
You can say congratulations all you want, Paige Kellerman. I’m waiting for you to add to your brood 🙂 🙂 🙂
Polly says
Heartiest congratulations!
Stephanie Jankowski says
Polly!!! Thank you 🙂
Dani Ryan says
Congrats again! I’m SOOOOOO excited for you! And I cannot wait for all of the blog fodder it provides!!! xoxoxo
Stephanie Jankowski says
You know, we could be knocked up together. Just sayin’… 😉
Carrie says
Congratulations! I adore the video. My kids will probably be having the same argument when/if we have a 3rd! :0)
Stephanie Jankowski says
Thanks so much, Carrie! The kids definitely took me by surprise with that video! Can’t wait to see what else is in store 😉
Michelle - You're my favorite today. says
Congratulations!! That video is priceless…as are the 76 pregnancy tests. ha.
I’m off to toast to your adorable (growing) family with a glass of wine!! And okay, okay, since you’re pregnant, I’ll have one for you, too.
xo
Stephanie Jankowski says
Michelle!!! Have some cold lunch meat and shellfish for me, too, okay? 😉
THANK YOU!
Vicky says
Hooray! Hooray! This is so fun! I know I only know you but don’t really KNOW you but I am still as excited as I would be if I KNEW you. Wait, what? Whatever… Hooray! This is such fun news and no one will bring out the hilarity of pregnancy like you. Ant wait to ride shot gun on your fun and wild ride!
Vicky
http://thepursuitofnormal.blogspot.com/
Stephanie Jankowski says
🙂 🙂 🙂 Thanks so much, Vicky! I can’t wait for the belly to grow so I can balance cereal bowls on it for my kids. I’m the coolest.
Mama G says
Huge congratulations! Your children are adorable, that video is so funny! I get the impression that if you left them to battle the girl/boy issue out without a time limit, your daughter would win and your son would end up in Accident and Emergency? xx
Stephanie Jankowski says
Bahahahahaha!!!!! I do believe your impression would be correct. She gave up easily in this video, but I think she was just biding her time 😉
Thanks so much, Mama! xo
Jessica Smock says
Congratulations! That’s amazing news!
Stephanie Jankowski says
THANK YOU, doctor! xo
Laurie says
Congrats! Awesome news. I wish someone would tell me I’m going to be a grandma…after they get married, of course!
Stephanie Jankowski says
Throwing some Grandparent vibes into the universe for ya!
Amy says
Yay yay yay yay yay! Congratulations! I can’t wait to hear all of your hilarious preggo tales. Start dishing mama!!!
Stephanie Jankowski says
Oh dish I will, don’t you worry! I have a tendency to Overshare… 😉
Amy says
p.s. Your kids are so freaking ADORABLE!!!!!!
Stephanie Jankowski says
Well, shucks. Thank you! xo
Stacey @ Nurse Mommy Laughs says
I am so happy for you and thrilled you are one of those preggos who have a knack for it. It wasn’t my bag, but I loved the surprise at the end! Have a great pregnancy and I look forward to hearing more about your baby adventures.
Stephanie Jankowski says
“It wasn’t my bag!” Ahahahahaha! The surprise at the end does make it worth it, right? 😉 Thanks for reading and commenting, Stacey!
Mercy says
Congratulations! I love that video. Of course a boy always wants a boy and a girl wants a girl. I recall that happening in my family whenever my mom had a new baby (I’m one of 8).
I’ve got 3 and life is crazy and chaotic, but I love it. And just for the record, I’m done having kids. I hated being pregnant and all the trials that came with it. Wish all you want, but it ain’t happening to me any more. 🙂
Stephanie Jankowski says
EIGHT KIDS! God bless your mom’s lady bits! Thanks for reading and for commenting, Mama. Much luck with your crazy chaos. I have a feeling I’m in for much of the same 🙂
Little Miss Wordy says
That video is effing precious! How great will it be to show it to them when they’re older, and to show the newest blessing too! Love love love it and love that you’re having another baby! I know you’ve been wanting one for some time now! Congratulations! Take care of yourself and enjoy. I was one of the weirdos too that really enjoyed being pregnant. 🙂
Stephanie Jankowski says
Thank you so much, L!!!!!!! 😉
Sandra Sallin says
Well, congratulations! How delightful. I must say as a grandmother I would be happy to ome over and rock and coo to your baby to give you some quiet time. My grandkids are 10,8, and 5. I miss the cuddling and caring.
Stephanie Jankowski says
Sandra, you are welcome any time!! Especially around 2am 😉
Theresa says
I’m so incredibly super late, but CONGRATS! That is so awesome. Can’t wait to hear more baby news. I’ve been living vicariously through my preggo friends lately 😉
Stephanie Jankowski says
Hey, there’s always room for more, right Mama?! 😉
THANK YOU!